Posts Tagged ‘emotions’

16
Dec

Username: Unbeautiful

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I was visiting one of my social networking sites the other day and logged in to the section I was in was a person with the username – unbeautiful.

My first thought was, “WOW! Doesn’t that say everything about what this person believes about what they are!”

Then I immediately thought to myself, “Why would you even think of putting that out there even if you did believe it?”

One of the things I learned early on in my spiritual walk is, “Everything you think, do, and say is a reflection of your beliefs.”

When trying to explain this further to others, I explain that when I was growing up, I was not nurtured in an environment that elevated self-esteem. My maiden name is Morano, and throughout my adolescence I was called, Moron with an O by my peers.

As I matured, when asked how to pronounce my name, guess what I used? You got it! Moron with an O! It wasn’t until a few years ago that it finally dawned on me what I was putting out there.

I’m telling you this to illustrate how we let our thoughts and emotions control our image of ourselves, which in turn translates to the image we put forth to the world.

While I have not used my maiden name in over 30 years, guess what I’d call myself when I made a mistake? Moron! When I finally caught myself saying that word aloud one day, I stopped suddenly and asked myself why was I calling myself that? And you probably guessed that I had long forgotten the Moron with an O chants from my youth. But somewhere, I still believed it or it wouldn’t have come out of my mouth – even to myself!

So, if everything you think, do, and say is a reflection of your beliefs, what are you telling others? What are you telling yourself?

And why would you want to let the world know that you think you are ‘unbeautiful’??

Start listening and noticing what beliefs you are putting forth in your world. Because ultimately, life will reflect your beliefs back to you. But that’s a subject for another post!

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2
Dec

Ogre’s (and Humans) Are Like Onions!

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If you’re laughing at the title of this post, then you’ve seen the movie “Shreik”.

For those who haven’t seen the movie, there’s a scene when Shreik (the Ogre) is talking to Donkey and he declares that Ogre’s are like onions, they have layers. He was speaking about his emotions.

In my metaphysical circle of friends, we jokingly refer to this phrase when someone makes the statement, “But I thought I healed that!

Healing our hearts from past hurts and emotional shutdowns are no different than peeling back the layers of an onion. There are many levels of hurt.

Sometimes, it requires the stripping away of the first level to get at the underlying levels of hurt beneath it. Emotions you may have suppressed or repressed early on in your life.

It is not unusual for people to share with me that they sat and cried for hours or days during a healing. Even though they cannot tell me what it was they were crying about.  They just say that they are overcome with some sort of unknown sadness and cry.

If this happens to you, remember that you are just like Shreik the Ogre and like an onion. The layers of hurt have been piled on since before you became a rational being.

It is said that a child experiences every emotion of the parent before the age of 5. If children don’t become rational beings until the age of 7, how screwed up emotionally do you think you are before you can figure out what to think about it?

EXACTLY!

Remember that our healing takes place on many levels and sometimes we just have to remember Shriek and his onion statement, knowing that we are healing layer-by-layer.

And when those events happen, remember to keep the tissue box nearby!

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